Dealing with a Cheating partner

 

 

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(04/15/2010)Clues relating to infidelity vary widely from case to case and relationship to relationship. It is difficult therefore to compile a difinitive list of tips to look out for but our professional experience has shown that with the benefit of hindsight, some of the below indicators will ALWAYS be present in the case of infidelity being PROVED....

The following indicators can refer equally to men and women alike.
Behaviour indicators:
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Sudden and unexplained mood swings
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Your partner seems distracted or distant
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Starts a pattern of working late or going away on unexplained overnight conferences
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Is reluctant for you to call the office
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Mobile phone behaviour changes - increased text messaging, promptly deletes messages and call logs
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Less time and interest is devoted to you and your relationship
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Pops out at strange hours to walk the dog
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Wants to go out with his/her friends exclusively
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Becomes defensive when quized
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Increased references to a particular individual
Physical indicators:
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Smells of perfume/aftershave not normally worn by them
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Lipstick marks on the face or clothing
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Sudden change in sexual appetite/behaviour
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Paying more attention to their own appearence
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Unexplained expenditure
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Internet activity history is being deleted


What can you do to discover the truth?
Very often, infidelity is discovered by the spouse accidently. Returning home unexpectedly or a random phone call or trip to the office reveals they are 'on a days holiday today.' In such cases, a spouse who has been 'caught out' may break down and confess all, but this is still fairly unlikely.

When attempting to deal with a lying or cheating spouse you will almost certainly need to employ some form of physical surveillance. This can be very difficult for the suspecting partner to do alone for many reasons, not least of which is being recognised! There are things however that you can start to do if you are suspicious:

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Start to keep a written record of what is said, times, dates, people, excuses made etc. These are your notes of referal and can be invaluable. Use them to satisfy yourself by cross referencing these datails with later conversations and excuses, phone bills, credit card bills, ATM withdrawal (remember the cheating spouse will often not recall lies exactly the second time!)
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Keep a record of all incoming/outgoing phone calls
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Check the mobile phone bills for numbers with noticably increased dialing or texting.
When you feel sufficiently sure that something is wrong, now is the time to approach the professionals for help.

Professional Covert and Discerte Surveillance
Surveillance is an art and although many less scrupulous investigators will assure you that it is easy and they do it all the time, it really requires qualified experts with specialist equipment on hand to effectively gather evidence ethically, discretely and most importantly, legally. The law is very specific on what is legal and what is not when it comes to surveillance. Always use a fully qualifed professional who is a registered member of a regulatory body (such as those indicated on our web site) that way you should be assured of good service.

Warwickshire Investigation Agency's surveillance capabilites are second to none. We achieve the very best levels of evidence available in each and every case, all of which is presented to you professionally and to a level where it may be used in any subsequent court hearing. Our service is tailor made to your needs and largely to your budget. Your enquiry will always be dealt with sympathetically and discretely. You can choose to be supported by either a male or female specialist investigator and our inital advice will always be FREE OF CHARGE...GUARANTEED!

If you would like to talk further, call us now directly on:
01789 770980

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Warwickshire Investigation Agency

 

 

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